I do a lot of traveling and every time I fly I hear the same safety speech over and over.  They tell you that in case of cabin pressure loss oxygen masks will fall from the ceiling.  You are instructed to put your own mask on first before trying to help your child or other passengers.  While my brain accepts the need to save yourself so that you can save others, my heart always rebels at the thought of putting myself above my children. As I begin to get ready for my trip to visit several Frontier Girls troops, I